tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039516961531837815.post6754397920917118545..comments2024-01-06T08:26:12.331+00:00Comments on Ruminations of Leonidas: I don't know who I amUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039516961531837815.post-73916832021453393852015-07-25T00:30:54.682+01:002015-07-25T00:30:54.682+01:00Leo I'm Kiki! So surprised to find you have th...Leo I'm Kiki! So surprised to find you have the same problem as I do.. Actually don't overthink it...! I know it's very common among people and part of the human nature to please everyone else. I'd say it's mainly because the person is not confident enough rather than not knowing enough about him or her self. When you are brave enough to make your own judgement and decision, then it's nothing if there's people who don't like you. And I think you are brave to be yourself don't you? I could feel the real you is an optimistic, intelligent and super friendly open-minded person :D All the time I keep trying to make everyone else happy too, but sometime you just can't make it really. And why you have to make everyone else pleased? Just do the right thing and keep your own kindhearted personality! Happiness is about yourself, not given by others. Though I still can't get rid of this now.. can't help trying to please others every time.. I'm beginning to accept it more now: because that is the real me. @.@ These words might seem not in a very clear logic but Leo! Don't worry too much about it. You're very true about yourself already. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039516961531837815.post-76900400918478444292015-07-24T12:56:27.150+01:002015-07-24T12:56:27.150+01:00This isn't just you that feels this- if you...This isn't just you that feels this- if you've been bullied in the past you'll find that issues with identity, self-worth, and the person you present to others. A lot of people who've had a history of bullying present these signs- a while ago I read somewhere that it's due to a need to not stand out and draw attention to yourself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com